If I had to teach ONE module inside THRIVE to help you build your coaching business around the 9to5 it would be....

Drum roll purrrrrlease!!!!!

Nervous System Regulation!!!! (I am literally doing jazz hands)

 Look, maybe I'm starting to sound like my science teacher but if you can 'hack' your nervous system then you will conquer the world (and by that I mean to achieve your true soul desires). 

Struggling to show up on socials? Thank your nervous system.

Scared to say what you really want to say on that post? Thank your nervous system. 

Scared to tell anyone at work what you've been up to in your spare time because they don't fucking own you. Thank your nervous system.

Want to speak about sexuality, purpose, burnout, parenting or some other 'edgy' topic because that's what ACTUALLY lights you TF up but can't bring yourself to do it? Thank your nervous system. 

IT ALL COMES BACK TO YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM. 

Okay okay, so what do I mean by 'hack'? - I literally mean to simply LOVE yourself.

The word hack is dangerous of course - there is absolutely no quick fix to NS regulation. Actually I lie, a lot of commercialism thrives of 'quick fixes' - gambling, drugs, porn, alcohol, toxic Netflix shows?

In truth they fix sweet FA. They simply mask the true problem and exacerbate dysregulation by creating a reliance on other things. Bad for your dreams and goals, great for drug lords, alcohol companies and Netflix. (okay that was harsh - I love netflix but the rest still stands).

So, when I say learning the life hack of truly loving yourself and holding and increasing your capacity to do hard things,  it's actually very deep, sometimes slow AF but oh so important work. 

It's the kind of work that makes us the weirdo's, woo woo and often misunderstood for doing personal development.... yet also the ones who are dubbed 'over night successes' and 'how did you do that?!' when you actually reach a place of sovereign self-leadership. 

I really do mean it is the most important thing you will ever do, and to be honest, ALL you ever do when you partake in any form of personal development. 

Without knowing how to regulate your nervous system (NS), you stay stuck, small, and in your 9to5; being who you've always been and doing what you've always done. But you don't want that and I don't want that for you. 

That's why you're reading this far so now, let me share HOW. 

It's simple but not easy.

In a nutshell it takes:

✨️AWARENESS

✨️CURIOSITY 

✨️LOVE

✨️ACCEPTANCE 

I teach the framework inside THRIVE, as when you can truly begin doing this regularly it makes:

 - showing up

- charging money

- talking about your offer

- being boldly of service

...easy and even expansive.

It also makes:

- implementing boundaries,

- actually saying no to shit you don't want to do

- building discipline to get things done you have to do 

- and doing things you never thought you would do.... 

a lot more achievable as well.  

Ready to get the help you deserve with energetics and strategy to build your coaching business around the 9to5?

Schedule your consult using the link in the bio today.

Your coach

Pamella

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